MARRIED MEN AND SINGLE LADIES – THE CHEMISTRY
I often ask : Why do single ladies fall for married men? It’s obvious they are hooked and booked, yet they indulge in the forbidden affair.
The simple fact that he is hooked and booked makes him a wild temptation that stirs up the comatose part of a lady and make her fantasize on all the lustful desires she wants to fulfill. He stirs up a challenge in a woman, especially when he pays her compliment she would die to hear everyday, and make her feel so important. It is not as if a lady is looking for a fling, which she can get from anybody but because of the sense of power in attracting a man who is already booked. It makes her daring and eager to play the wild game.
The basic truth here is; We always want what we can’t have.
She keep wishing he is not taken and he was hers alone, but will the passion be the same?
Ladies easily fall for married men because of their vulnerability, especially when they are unsecured. The married man tend to satisfy a certain security she craves for if he makes himself indispensable to her. He becomes an authority she adores. Experience and confidence are added qualities that makes him more irresistible to her.
Dating a married man also makes a lady feel triumphant. The very thought of being chosen instead of his wife makes her more special. He became a trophy of catch, that she is willing to do the impossible to get him. If he is always there at her beck and call, her self esteem increases. She feels she got the power over him.
It is simply an adventure
But ladies, don’t fool yourself
The married man already has an insurance which is his wife. Because no matter what he does, whenever this world crumbles, he has a wife that will be by his side all the time. Whereas the single lady is an assurance that he is still a man. Men love playing games. And married men are still men. They are always on the prowl, looking for fun. They give out the vibe. Like a friend once told me. “ I am married but I am game” and wherever you ask of his wife he fells you he is deeply in love with her which makes me ponder: Does love permits infidelity? Unless, he is unhappily married that the single lady could get her overwhelming obsession over him a reality. If not you are a loser!
However, human beings are fragile creatures that are easily hurt but quickly rejuvenate, ready for a new experience. Do not love in detriment of another woman’s happiness.
