WHY DO MEN CHEAT?

This is the question in the minds of thousands of women in the world. Why in the world would he look at another woman? Why must he always go after every thing under a skirt, what makes the other woman better off than me? Ladies keep asking these questions without any plausible answer. Today he is with you, loving you, caring for you and the next minute he is checking out the other woman. he acts as if you do not exist, easily flares up when you make a simple sentence, looks at you strangely, shakes his head like he just woke up from a bad dream and bluntly tell you, “I think this is all a big mistake, what was I thinking, I’m sorry Kate but we can’t go out any longer?” In addition, you ask yourself what you have done wrong. you reflect on your attitude, lifestyle, the times you spent together happily, trying to see where you made the mistake, whereas you did nothing, he just found another woman he wants to try out. OR
he might act lovingly while still screwing your girlfriend or the girl next door until you walk in on them. “OMG!” you scream. Angrily you kicked him out of the house, while you bleed your heart out and ask yourself if you were deformed in anyway. What does she have that I don’t? OR
He tries to get you angry so that you can get frustrated and ask for a break up. Seriously, what is wrong with men? I know women cheat but it cannot be compared to men. When confronted they say it is their nature. Nature? What does nature have to do with cheating? In the western world, divorce rate is increasing each passing day as couples get into marriage and the next minute they get out of it. Before, the general idea was that men are just sex crazed but with the recent events in the entertainment industry, I think it is more than the sex. Men are leaving their girlfriends, wives because of money and fame. If you think I’m lying, check out Fantasia, Alicia Keys among the others. Their boyfriends are men who dumped their wives to be attached to their fame. Seriously, how low can a man stoop? This money issue is common with the women but it seems the men are taking the reins.
When I asked this question on a radio station, I received various answers from men. Some said it is predestined for men right from creation to cheat; a man even referred me to the bible. Well, in the bible, Old Testament to be precise, King David and Solomon are the only promiscuous men but others at least practiced polygamy. However, men of this age are not into polygamy, they are into divorce. I am sure if I Google the most divorced man, I will definitely get a name. Some claim that the women made themselves available, I will partially agree to that because most women are so cheap. It’s as if they are telling the guys two can play the game, if my man is catching his fun why can’t I?
A man said it’s for fun, the fun of having a woman at your beck and call even though you have a woman, just catch the fun of screwing every woman who wants to be screwed.
I was shocked when a caller told me that men cheat because of what they hear from other men who are cheaters. These are his exact words, “sometimes when you are in the midst of your male friends and they start discussing their sex escapades with women, you will be tempted to try it out. Sometimes, a woman might pass by and Joe will describe how good or bad she is in bed or how easy to get her. It is quite disgusting but it is fun especially when they hook you up with her. However, sometimes talking about how many women you have under your fingertips kinda make you the real man.” Tell me something else brother, I have to be careful whenever I walk in the midst of men.
Another answer I got was from a married man, he said he cheats on his wife because he found out that the wife has a crush on his elder brother and was always giving him all the preferential treatment. In retaliation, he slept with his wife kid sister who he claimed was better off in bed than his wife did. My ears are quite full.
A real player called and said it is just in him to cheat on his girlfriends.
“Maybe I’m a nympho but I just can’t get my eyes off anything called girl. I broke up with my girlfriends more often than I do my laundry. It’s just in me.” What a comparison!
Someone said most times it is the women fault, they do not give the man what he wants and if the man finds another woman who can satisfy him, he will definitely go for her no matter how much he loves the other woman. What happened to compromise?
Only one male caller said something reasonably, he said, “A man who cheats on his woman does not respect her and is selfish. If you love your woman as you claim, no matter the temptation, you will always be faithful to her.”
Reminds me of what my elder sister told me when I was still a teenager, “Date a guy that is so crazy over you even when you catch him with another girl, he will leave her and come after you.”
Personally, I think men are hardwired, they either go for where they can get the sex, money or fame free, as long as it is free they are going for it. Like the honest dude said, it is only a man who disrespects his woman and is selfish that cheats on his woman. So my sisters if you are hooked with a brother who cannot take his eyes from your girlfriend or the girl next door or anything under a skirt, then let him go because he’s not worth it and stop berating yourself. You are okay; he is just too blind to see your beauty and worth. But, do not ever try to cheat on your man because he is cheating on you because you will end up getting hurt. Always give yourself time before you jump into another relationship. And brothers, zip up! No matter the reason for your infidelity, remember you love her and you would not like to hurt her, especially married men. It is either you are into polygamy or not.
To all my players out there, always have this at the back of your mind; you can never out beat Solomon in the bible and AIDS is real!